Controlling your money takes daily action. If you want to control your money you have to pay attention to what it's doing every day. Every. Single. Day.
Well, once again life hit, and with some of the financial blows my household took, my planned date of graduation came and went. I will say, it was a little depressing. I was looking forward to being "done" early and celebrating my success.
I am a bit of a control freak, and I love charts and graphs. I think on some level they make me think I am controlling the information in them. Maybe it is because control is about power and information is power.
Regular payments would have had to have been made throughout his 7th grade school year. Vonnie and I crunched the numbers several times, but with our finances as they were then, we just couldn't find a way to afford the trip. We sadly told Tristan that he would not be able to go.
Good organization is the kind that produces more efficient and more effective outcomes for you, as a matter of course. That's how you judge it.
Many people just toss the receipt in the nearest trash can on their way out of the store. I'm guilty of that as well, how about you? Over time, I have come to realize that receipts are really quite useful pieces of paper that can save me money in several ways.
But for right now, I thought I'd blog on the light side and check in with everyone about my victories and defeats in December . . . a dangerous month for spending. I like confessions, they keep me accountable, so here goes.
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I had goals set in my budget, but in December I didn't stay focused and fell off the wagon.
There is definitely a correlation between how you view money matters and the state of your financial situation. The psychology behind spending, saving and indebtedness hinges on more then just what immediately comes to mind when you are struggling with debt.
I have to do the budget for the short period of time until I finish my DMP (Whoo Hoo!), and I have to do my after-DMP budget.
I didn't mind spending the money, but was struck with pangs of guilt when I had to record and face those expenditures.
It's January and in the Midwest it's cold outside. However, now that I'm the adult and responsible for paying for the heating bill, I'm much less interested in keeping my home at a tropical temperature. But I'm also not interested in having the same arguments with my family about the thermostat setting.
Life is like that. You have to take care of all the little daily things like taking out the trash, feeding the kids, and paying your bills . . . but you also build the story of your life -- your legacy -- by the long-range projects you take on.
I am not a haggler. I have always paid the ticket price and asked no questions. It is just not in me to haggle or negotiate. If that's the ticket price, then that's the price and you can take it or leave it. Not so with my husband. He isn't happy if he doesn't pay less than the sticker price. He loves haggling and he has become quite an expert.
As the New Year begins I challenge you to become a Master in the area of budgeting. If you are anything like me you tend to start the New Year with a bang committing to track every expense, save every receipt and only buy what you need. Typically, the momentum last for a few weeks and if I'm lucky it lasts for a few months.
I will set up a spreadsheet for it and even add a column in my Christmas spreadsheet for it. But then I never fill it in. And then-now here's a shocker-I wonder where all my money goes.
I'm a planner so we had a plan for emergencies. We have all the important paperwork the experts said to have. We have a living wills and a health care power of attorney. We have all our bills in one place and an emergency fund. My husband's job had even let him transfer some of his vacation time into a fund for short term care. I thought we were ready for anything.
Lying about your spending habits either to your partner or worse, yourself only allows things to spiral out of control. So start off 2013 right by tracking your expenses and finding out where your money is going. Chances are there is a lot of room for improvement and new habits you can foster this year.
One of the most important things you can do for your finances is understand how your money moves through your personal financial system.
The recession has done many things but maybe one of the largest impacts occurred when baby boomers had years of savings devalued by the 2008 recession. Some have not recovered.
We added stockings for our two kids as they entered our lives, but I always followed Vonnie's lead when it came to filling them.
Why do we get so frustrated? At least in part, it's because we haven't built the structures to support our goals -- including mechanisms to track our progress toward them.
Now that the rush of the holidays is over, what purchase do you regret the most, and what did you learn from the experience?
First and foremost, if you don't have a written budget, make one now. If you do have a budget, resolve to stick to it. Budgeting lies at the foundation of every financial plan. It doesn't matter if you're living paycheck to paycheck or earning six figures a year, you need to know where your money is going if you want to have a handle on your finances
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